To the people piling hate on Lindsay for becoming part of VS
HOW DARE YOU
What the fuck is your problem with the absolute perfection that is Lindsay Tuggey?
Is it that she’s new and needs time to get used to being on camera? Is it because she’s a woman? Go fuck yourself
She fits into the group dynamic very well, so she’s naturally the next candidate for the main AH crew. She’s super sweet and funny as fuck and so awesome some people apparently can’t fucking handle it.
This has been an important PSA. Peace out and always remember:
(credit for the last GIF goes to ragehappythunder)
I’m sure you’ve heard by now, but in case you didn’t, somebody leaked a picture that was in Gavin Free’s private facebook and it’s spreading everywhere. It has Gavin and Meg cuddling together in it.
Please, If you see it, don’t repost or reblog it. If it was meant to be public Gavin wouldn’t have posted it on his private Facebook account. Please lets show that we actually respect these people’s privacy.
Everyone who contributes in the Joelay tag is just perfect and beautiful.
I’m so serious, If you are in a bad relationship, whether its a romantic one or a friendship, LEAVE. If you are bending over backwards to please someone at the cost of your emotional well-being and sense of self-worth, hoping that it will make things better IT IS NOT WORTH IT.
Don’t keep it to yourself, tell your loved ones and ask for support because an abusive relationship is almost impossible to escape on your own. It does not make you weak and it is not your fault for “putting yourself in that situation”. NOTHING you did makes you deserve to be emotionally or physically abused by someone you gave your love and trust to.
There are monsters on this earth who masquerade as people. They only seek gratification for themselves no matter what the cost. They have a lifetime’s worth of problems and never learned to deal with it in any healthy way, choosing instead to inflict that pain on others. They thrive off people who are caring and compassionate and forgiving. They latch on to those people and will drain them of absolutely everything until their victims have lost their sense of safety, their autonomy and respect for themselves. These monsters will make the victims feel bad for them and make it seem like its their own fault and if they just complied more to their whims, things will get better.
These monsters are not easy to detect. Sometimes they are interesting people and they’re not outwardly mean or selfish. Very often they don’t treat other people the way they treat their victims. Often they don’t realize that what they are doing is wrong and evil because their perception of reality is warped beyond recognition. Usually abusive relationships start out like normal healthy relationships and when things go south the victim wont realize it until its too late. The perpetrator may genuinely love the other person, but they will start using the other person’s love as a weapon, as a tool to get exactly what they want. People trapped in abusive relationships will often not leave because they still care for the monster that hurts them. Its not because they are stupid or desperate. The victim often becomes completely used to the pain and abuse and grow apathetic in order to cope without going insane. When they grow apathetic, they accept the pain as a part of normal life and don’t think anymore about escaping.
If your friend is brave enough to come to you and talk about being abused, never blame the victim. They have become a pawn in someone else’s sick game, taught to think that this kind of abuse is normal and that its not a real “problem”. If they don’t want to call the police, don’t. Just listen to them and tell them that they don’t need this asshole in their lives and that they do deserve better. Tell them that you will always be there for them. They think they are weak and stupid and that they brought this upon themselves; they are full of guilt and shame. You need to tell them there is nothing to be ashamed of and that they are not weak. Tell them it is hard for anyone to move on by themselves and that they need loved ones to support them along the way, because everyone does.
This has been a public announcement on abusive relationships and how you, as a friend, can help.
THEY’RE RELEASING ASSASSIN’S CREED LIBERATION ON THE 360
I CAN’T BREATHE